June 4, 2013 12:14 am
Planning a move can be hard, but planning a move with children can be even more difficult. When it comes to moving, most children aren't happy abandoning their childhood homes. Author Irene Agapion-Palamaris claims that children can be happy about moving if you prepare them in the right ways.
In her new children's book, Marilyn is Moving, Agapion-Palamaris tells the story of a spunky little girl named Marilyn and her emotions when she finds out she is moving. After her attempts at stopping the move proved to be unfruitful, she becomes involved in the selection process of her new home. It's then when she realizes moving can be fun.
With tips learned as a real estate agent, Agapion-Palamaris tells the story to help children understand the importance of the move. Here are a few tips to help make a move easier on children:
1. Be upbeat about the move from the start. Emotions are contagious. If your child notices your excitement for the move, he or she will feed off of your positive energy and will likely come around quicker.
2. Hold a family meeting to discuss the details and time line. If your children feel that they are an important part of the process, they will be more open to conversation regarding the move. Allow them to help make simple decisions, which will boost their feelings of self-worth.
3. Show the children the new house (if possible). Show your child what his or her new room will look like and offer suggestions for what they can do with the new room. This will increase excitement.
4. Start making plans for the designs of their rooms. What child doesn't like a totally awesome paint job? Let the child choose a color or pattern for the walls. With the correct supervision, children will feel like it really is "their room."
5. Host a moving party with all your children's neighborhood friends. Reinforce that it is not a "goodbye," but a "see you soon." Make plans with other children and their parents for a visit to see the new home. By keeping in touch with his or her friends, your child will adjust to the move more quickly.
Published with permission from RISMedia.