May 10, 2013 1:12 am
"As we celebrate Mother's Day, we are inspired by the valuable advice and insights received from the moms and daughters we help each day," said Sean Kell, CEO of A Place for Mom. "Our Senior Living Advisors provide strength and guidance to families in need, and this survey was a wonderful opportunity for us to benefit from the wisdom of those we serve as they care for their loved ones."
A sampling of the wisdom shared from mothers across the country, according to the survey were:
• You cannot control what life gives you, but you can control how you handle it.
• Seek first to understand, not to be understood.
• Work hard and always have something for yourself.
• Don't give up. Remember your roots. Stay strong, and if all else fails, have a good cry (but privately)!
• Doing the right thing isn't always easy, but it's easier than the alternative.
• It is important to be kind to your family, because you are stuck with them forever.
• No matter what obstacle you are facing, no matter how difficult, daunting or terrifying, if you attack it with everything you are made of you will always prevail.
• Surround yourself with people that lift you up and make you laugh!
• Love is what matters most in the world.
• Always have a good pair of red heels and red purse.
With over 300 Americans ages 18-65 polled, survey results showed that many Americans describe their mothers positively and state relationships have grown closer over time.
Words used to describe mom were:
o Inspirational (90 percent)
o Loving (29 percent)
o Strong (27 percent)
o Caring (22 percent)
o Hard-working (22 percent)
o Unselfish (20 percent)
Mothers have positively influenced key areas of their children's lives including:
o Relationships with others (40 percent)
o Decision-making (34 percent)
o Self-esteem (24 percent)
o Career (12 percent)
Over time, more than half of adults surveyed have strengthened their relationship with mom and have:
o Become closer friends (54 percent)
o Become each other's support system (39 percent)
Moms (45 percent) and sons/daughters (40 percent) seek each other's advice before making major decisions
Source: A Place for Mom
Published with permission from RISMedia.